Domina Training. Seminars and courses for dominatrix, dominatrices, mistresses and slaves, instructions in female dominance femdom, submission, BDSM, bondage, sadomaso, sadism, masochism, fetish

Domina School Zürich


The play between pain and lust is the central element in BDSM. Finding the right balance is an art that requires a lot of experience. A professional dominatrix knows about the fantasies of her slave, knows her tools and plays skilfully at the limits of his lust-pain.

With us you will learn the basics of successful dominance, be it to enrich your private life with this varied pleasure or for professional use with your clients.

Instructor Tom

A novice dominatrix noticed, that her client Tom knew already everything she wanted to learn about BDSM - if only she had found a suitable school. So she made him her consultant and teacher. More sexworkers showed interest and so Tom founded the Domina School Zurich.

For Tom, masochism is a lifelong passion and his experience as a submissive turned out to be a great advantage in his teaching: He knows exactly what the clients of a dominatrix want and he knows the corresponding techniques and their effects from his own experience.

Tom's calm manner and his previous activities as a designer, music teacher and author make him an effective and valued instructor.

Tom Deckard Instructor
Lady Rachael Consultant Domina
Sam Batty Instructor (currently inactive)
House slave

Training offers
for professionals or individuals

Fun taster course

    You are curious, but still unsure whether Femdom is something for you? Here we show you what it is all about and let you try it.

  • 1 1/2 hours fun for CHF 190.–

Basics Course I

  • Culture, History and Psychology, facets of BDSM, fetishes
  • Your goals, style, inclinations and appearance
  • Basic equipment: furniture, tools and clothing
  • Security, legal, health, hygiene
  • Procedure of a session

Basics Course II

  • Communication with the customer, identifying inclinations
  • bondage or demonstratively voluntary submission
  • Education, discipline
  • Basic techniques for pain and excitement
  • Tabus and dangers
  • Coronavirus safe techniques

Basics Course III Practice

  • Tests on the basics
  • How to have a successful session without equipment
  • Example of a beginner session
  • Played scenarios for different types of customers
  • Real sessions

Advanced courses on individual topics

  • Anal stretching, fisting
  • Clinic and electrosex
  • Bondage art, pillory, etc.
  • Verbal dominance
  • Slavery
  • Specific fetishes, etc.

Creative Course

  • Creative combination of techniques
  • Extreme techniques with means from nature
  • Special furniture
  • Inventing and trying out new techniques

We create for you

  • Your personal style
  • Suitable photos, including retouching etc.
  • Your personal website
  • Promotional activities: advertisements, texts, social media
  • Your presence in the BDSM scene

Procedure and costs

All courses are individually tailored to your needs and build on your existing knowledge. Details will be clarified with you beforehand. The two basic courses combined with basic practical training each last 3 hours (on 3 days for 3 hours each). The length of the advanced courses can be booked individually. We set the course dates according to your preferences.

The costs are CHF 150 per hour for a dominatrix student. If there are several female students CHF 100 per dominatrix per hour. (The basic course 3x3 hours thus costs CHF 1350.- for one female student)

After successful completion of the whole basic course, a certificate will be handed over.

We too, have made adjustments because of Corona. Therefore we are currently only using our photo studio in Zurich for teaching. It's a little smaller and has less equipment, but of course the quality of the lessons is still guaranteed. There are no group lessons at the moment.

About sadomasochism

The topic still meets with incomprehension and many prejudices in the public. Even a certain popular book and film series has, not surprisingly, changed very little about it.

Those who are not familiar with the subject may find some of these practices repulsive - but as a sexual variety with mutual consent of all parties involved there is nothing in BDSM that can be called reprehensible.

From a moral point of view, it should be noted that studies attest the BDSM-practitioners a more psychologically/ethically balanced condition than the rest of the population. Sadomasochists also tended to report less psychological stress (in their lives) than the other survey participants. (Study by Juliet Richters from the University of New South Wales in Sydney, 2008)

A possible explanation for this is not only their more tolerant attitude both sexually and generally, but also the psychological and physical experiences with themselves and their partners they made through BDSM practices, which require a high degree of mutual trust, dedication, control and self-knowledge.